Friday, January 3, 2025

Memories of Donna Shook, my beloved mother-in-law

 It seems appropriate that I first met Donna on Mother’s Day, three weeks after I met Jill at the Palm Sunday Peace Parade in Pasadena fourteen years ago. Donna was for me like a second mother, and this is a role she played for many others. She was one of the most loving, supportive, and fun people I’ve ever met. 

I’ll never forget our first lunch in Costa Mesa. It lasted for several hours. Donna, Jana, Jill and I talked, laughed and had a blast together. It was a foretaste of many fun lunches and dinners I had over the years with Donna and her family. 

Jill and I usually spent our holidays with Donna in her beautiful shell cottage in Shell Beach.  It was only a short walk to the beach, but walking with Donna from her cottage to the beach usually took a long time since she’d stop and talk with neighbors along the way. Like Jill, Donna took to heart Jesus’ command to “love your neighbor.” She loved her neighbors, and they loved her. At Christmas time we would go out and sing carols to her neighbors and had a blast. 

We took Donna on trips to San Francisco, San Diego, Ojai, Hearst Castle and other places, and she was an enthusiastic traveler. I remember once when we were in San Diego, we went inside a Russian submarine and Donna was the only 80-year-old to crawl through its cramped quarters. Donna loved adventure!

She also loved dancing. We had a blast dancing together in her kitchen. Even when she was bed-ridden and unable to speak coherently because of late stage Alzheimer’s, I would take both her hands and we’d dance together to old—time big band music and her feet would tap along to the jazz rhythms. 

We sang her songs like “My Girl” by the Temptations (using Donna’s name), “Donna” by Richie Valens, and her favorite, “Dancing Cheek to Cheek.” She especially loved it when I would press my check against her and we’d laugh together. 

Donna loved to flirt, even when bedridden. When I would visit, I’d often say, “You look beautiful today.” She’d bat her eyes and say, “I do?”

Donna always loved to have fun. I have precious memories of going with her to a bar called Harry’s in Pismo Beach.  She always dressed to the 9’s to go out and young men often came up to her to ask to dance. One even kissed her hand unsolicited and called her a goddess. She was like a guy magnet. On one weekend we went to Charlie Puffer’s Wine Bar as well as to Harry’s and five men kissed her hand and forehead on one night. How often does this happen to women pushing 90 years old?

Donna loved playing pool, as do I, so when we went to Harry’s to place, I would wrap my arms around her and  help her guide the cue stick. When she made a shot in a pocket, everyone in the bar would cheer. 

As you know, Donna loved beauty and art. Her watercolors are full of joy and exuberance.  Like Frida Kahlo, Donna made her whole life a work of art—her clothes, her home, and her artwork all reflected her deep love of beauty. 

Our home is filled not only with her art work but also with antique furniture and some of her shell collection from Shell Cottage. I often feel her presence in these things that meant so much to her. She left behind such a beautiful legacy. She saw beauty not only in nature and everyday things, but also in people. She loved God, went to church and was a strong Christian, but didn’t talk a lot about religion. She didn’t need to. She lived the Gospel of Love. When you were around Donna, she made you feel you were loved and important to her. She will always live in my heart


Tuesday, December 31, 2024

Epiphany/New Year/Christmas Letter 2024


We’re late in getting out our annual Christmas letter because the last month has been super hectic—with two major events, our Annual MHCH Celebration and the unveiling of the N. Fair Oaks mural—Jill’s foot surgery (removal of a neuroma that was causing intense pain), car issues (both our vehicles have been in the shop) and the death of Jill’s beloved mother at age 94 after a long bout with Alzheimer’s’. Jill’s mom passed peacefully on Dec. 13 at 4:15 am.

“I was unable to be present because my foot surgery took place that same day,” recalls Jill,  “but my sister Jana was with Mom at the lovely board-and-care with care givers and hospice workers. A friend from church suggested that I call my mom the night before she died, so I called and poured out my heart with tears and appreciation for having such an an amazing, vibrant, fun-loving mother who knew how to love and listen. She is now free from her Alzheimer’s and with her beloved Lord.”

A Graveside Service will be at 2:00 p.m. Sat. Jan. 4th at Loma Vista Cemetery, 701 E Bastanchury Rd, Fullerton, CA 92835. A Celebration of Life will also take place in Shell Beach on Jan. 11, at 11:30 p.m. Please contact janaheirendt@gmail.com for more information.

In lieu of flowers please send donations to Making Housing and Community Happen, a nonprofit that Donna’s daughter Jill and her husband Anthony co-founded: www.makinghousinghappen.org/donate .

To read about Donna’s amazing life, click here. https://www.ocregister.com/obituaries/donna-lee-shook-yorba-linda-ca/

In addition to these challenges, we’d like to share some of the highlights of this year.

Jill thoroughly enjoys our home and neighborhood, our prolific garden and eating its bountiful harvest of fruit and veggies, biking up the street with her new non-electric bike and waving and talking to neighbors.

She had a blast organizing her 70th birthday party where around 120 people came to celebrate her life and the 100th anniversary of our home, and also the completion of a bathroom for Mark, our friend who lives in our back house.

She also enjoyed working with Mark to create a rain barrel to capture water from the roof of the new bathroom.

Anthony enjoyed working on a book about the cancer journey that he and his previous wife Jill Shook took 15 years ago.

He had a delightful 75th birthday party with cherished friends and appreciated receiving aa a gift a box of ten Americauna chicks in the mail. They have grown up and are now producing blue eggs and lots of joy.

He has been faithfully attending weekly vigils in support of Palestinians and has successfully urged our city, his Quaker meeting and his annual Quaker Yearly Meeting to make public statements in support of a ceasefire, expedited humanitarian aid, and release of hostages. He has also been involved in raising tens of thousands of dollars in humanitarian aid to Gaza.

Both of us enjoyed our four-month sabbatical (from May 1 to Sept 1) knowing that our nonprofit was in the good hands of Bert Newton (our new executive director) and our staff.

We had a wondrous, peaceful retreat in a little cabin in the redwoods at the Ben Lomond Quaker Center.

We enjoyed going to a family reunion/ 25th wedding anniversary for Jill’s nephew Jonathan and his wife Jasmin, and hanging out in the lovely quaint, historic town of Benicia in the Bay area.

We are also happy with the successes of MHCH:

Thanks in large part to our efforts, the Pasadena Unified Schol Board approved affordable staff and teacher housing on a vacant school property, and voters approved a measure that will fund it. After a history of organizing that started over 20 years ago, this was a win worth celebrating!

The Civic Center project, 50 affordable units for low-income seniors and 50 units for unhoused seniors, has been fully approved after a two-and-and-a-half year delay in Design Review. Heritage Square South opened this summer—69 units of supportive housing for unhoused seniors. We feel great joy since we championed both projects.

Jill led a highly successful Housing Justice Institute in Placer County with five cities and over 80 people participating. Jill is now preparing for one in La Canada (a city not known for affordable housing, with a median income of $175,000, and hardly any rental units). She is overjoyed to see churches coming together to support this effort.

We are deeply grateful for these challenges and joys that are bringing closer to God and to our family and friends. We hope and pray you will have a joyful and blessed New Year!


Anthony and Jill


Tuesday, September 3, 2024

ICUJP Forum: Naming Suffering Instead of Denying Its Existence: Finding Our Way Through As Faith Communities

 

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September 6th, 7:30-9:30 am Pacific  


Naming Suffering Instead of Denying Its Existence: Finding Our Way Through As Faith Communities

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Do you find yourself doing a great deal in a time of urgency and feel like you are not getting very far? Join this program to confront the suffering of others without feeding its growth.

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Aziza Hasan is the executive director of NewGround, a nonprofit dedicated to bridging divides and convening constructive conversations around challenging social issues. With over 20 years of experience in program management and coalition building, she is a skilled mediator and trainer who has facilitated multiple groups and workshops on interfaith and intercultural issues.

Aziza's work has been featured in the New York Times, the LA Times, NBC, ABC, the Chronicle of Philanthropy, and National Public Radio, among others. She served on President Obama's Advisory Council on Faith-Based and Neighborhood Partnerships from 2015-2016 and the Los Angeles Civil and Human Rights Commission from 2020 to 2023. She is also a writer and speaker who has published several articles and curricula on bridging, peacemaking, and women's rights.

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NewGround: A Muslim-Jewish Partnership for Change

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Facilitator: Steve Rohde
Reflector: Rick Banales

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Friday, August 30, 2024

ICUJP Reflection: the Deplorable Grants Pass Decision of the Supreme Court and Its Effects in California

 



(This reflection was shared today at Interfaith Communities United for Justice and Peace.)

The sabbatical that Jill and I have been on since May 1 is coming to an end. On Monday, we’ll be back in the saddle, working on housing justice with our nonprofit, Making Housing and Community Happen.

While we were on sabbatical, the conservative justices on the Supreme Court made a deplorable decision in response to a lawsuit against the city of Grants Pass, Oregon.  Grants Pass fines and arrests unhoused people for being homeless, even though the city doesn’t provide a shelter or any other place where unhoused people can sleep. The conservative justices on the court decided that cities could fine or arrest an unhoused people for sleeping on the street or in their car even though a previous ruling described this as “cruel and unusual punishment.”  I’d like to share with you excerpts from an article that explains the implications of this decision.

Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sotomayor issued a scathing dissent on her conservative colleagues’ decisions to essentially criminalize homelessness.

While the conservative majority argued that the high court must not impede local governments from criminalizing homelessness, Sotomayor wrote, “It is possible to acknowledge and balance the issues facing local governments, the humanity and dignity of homeless people, and our constitutional principles.”

“The City of Grants Pass jails and fines those people for sleeping anywhere in public at any time, including in their cars, if they use as little as a blanket to keep warm or a rolled-up shirt as a pillow,” Sotomayor wrote. “For people with no access to shelter, that punishes them for being homeless. That is unconscionable and unconstitutional. Punishing people for their status is ‘cruel and unusual’ under the Eighth Amendment.”

Going on to quote social science experts, Sotomayor explained how punishing people for sleeping outside without providing offers to housing and available beds is simply “a big game of whack-a-mole.”

While the conservative justices trumpeted tropes about unsheltered homeless people being service-resistant, or denying shelter when offered, Sotomayor noted studies have shown that “the vast majority of those who are unsheltered would move inside if safe and affordable options were available.” Shawn Morrissey, who currently works for Union Station Homeless Services here in Pasadena,  experienced homelessness for 11 years and has worked for many years to help find housing for unhoused people. He says that unhoused people sometimes have to be approached many times to build trust, but he has never encountered an unhoused person who didn’t want to be housed.

When people resist being housed, notes Sotomeyer, it’s often because those beds that are available may have “restrictions based on gender, age, income, sexuality, religious practice, curfews that conflict with employment obligations, and time limits on stays.” For example, the only shelter in Grants Pass, which is charity-run, has strict religious and work requirements. I would add that women and the mentally ill sometimes don’t feel safe in congregate shelters because they fear being harassed.

The Supreme Court’s ruling on this case will allow cities and states to avoid the offer of shelter entirely if they so choose and offers one solution to homelessness: punishment.

As Sotomayor wrote, imposing fines and jailing individuals is not a solution. In her dissent, which she read from the bench, the justice described a story of a homeless man in Nashville who was arrested 198 times and had over 250 citations, making it difficult for an outreach worker to find him housing. The outreach worker was eventually forced to make him a T-shirt that read, “Please do not arrest me, my outreach worker is working on my housing.” Once the man, who experienced homelessness for 20 years, was able to secure stable housing, he “had no further encounters with the police, no citations, and no arrests.”

The Supreme Court has given permission to cities to punish people for being unhoused, but Governor Newsom has gone a step further and requires cities to adopt a punitive approach. He issued a dreadful edict calling on cities to clear encampments or face consequences, such as loss of funding.

Newsom’s edict encourages cities to follow the example of Grants Pass, and puts pressure on cities like Pasadena, Los Angeles and Long Beach who have up to now taken a more reasonable and humane approach.

We know what ends homelessness, and that’s housing. For chronically unhoused people, that means permanent housing, not temporary shelters, with wrap-around services to help them find jobs and deal with issues addiction and mental illness. Over 90% of chronically unhoused people who’ve been housed in our city have remained housed. And because we have a strong coalition of churches, activists, service providers and elected officials, Pasadena has reduced its homeless count by over 50% in the last decade. Because of the Supreme Court’s shameful decision, and Newsom’s edict, the Pasadena City Council has agendized a discussion of the Grants Pass decision on September 9. I plan to be there, along with other housing justice advocates, to say that we must house, not criminalize, our unhoused neighbors. As a person of faith, I feel it’s our responsibility to do what we are told in Proverb 31:9: “Speak up for the people who have no voice, for the rights of all the oppressed. Speak out for justice! Stand up for the poor and destitute!” Can I get an amen?

 

Wednesday, August 28, 2024

AFSC Warns of Worsening Humanitarian Crisis in Gaza: ICUJP forum this Friday, Aug 20, at 7:30 am

 



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August 30th, 7:30-9:30 am Pacific  


AFSC Warns of Worsening Humanitarian Crisis in Gaza

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The American Friends Service Committee (AFSC) has a long history in Gaza, starting refugee camps in 1948 for about two years, before the UN created UNRWA. Today, 76 years down the road, the AFSC continues to work in Gaza, and the question of Palestinian refugees has not been resolved yet. The webinar will highlight the work of the AFSC in Gaza over history including today and how life in Gaza has changed after October 7.

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Yousef Aljamal is the Gaza coordinator at the Palestine Activism Program at the American Friends Service Committee (AFSC). Aljamal is a refugee from Al-Nusierat refugee camp in the Gaza Strip. He recently received his PhD at the Middle East Institute at Sakarya University in Turkey. He can be contacted at yaljamal@afsc.org

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Yousef Aljamal: The daily battles to survive the Gaza genocide

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Interfaith Communities United for Justice and Peace recognizes the Gabrieliño Tongva as the past, present, and future caretakers of the land, water, and cultural resources in the unceded territory of Los Angeles.

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 Pursuing Justice and Peace
ICUJP 2024 Rev. George F. Regas Courageous Peacemaker Awards

Passing the Torch: Working for Justice and Peace from City Hall to Palestine

Sunday, September 8, 2024 • 3:00-5:00 pm
Holman United Methodist Church, 3320 W Adams Blvd, Los Angeles, CA 90018

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We will be recognizing the icons of social justice that were integral in founding ICUJP 23 years ago: Reverend James Lawson, Dr. Maher Hathout, Rabbi Leonard Beerman, and Rev. George Regas. We will also be honoring the current generation of leaders calling for justice and peace, including Hedab Tarifi and Tahil Sharma.



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Tuesday, August 27, 2024

Pacific Yearly Meeting takes a public stand on Israel/Palestine conflict

 



Vigil in downtown Whittier during PacYM annual session

Do Minutes of Concern Matter?

I left Pacific Yearly Meeting’s annual session this summer with a feeling of joy that I haven’t felt for many years. What made my heart leap for joy was that we approved a minute of concern on Israel/Palestine calling for:

1.      A permanent ceasefire.

2.      End[ing] complicity in human rights violations and war crimes by the United States and other countries, and impos[ing] a universal arms embargo.

3.      Release of Israeli hostages and Palestinian political prisoners.

4.      Expedited humanitarian aid and protection of aid workers, including American Friends Service Committee (AFSC) staff.

5.      A lasting peace that guarantees safety and justice for Israelis and Palestinians.

It wasn’t just approving a minute of concern that made me joyful, it was also connecting with Friends who feel as outraged and upset as I am about the genocidal acts taking place in Gaza and the West Bank. My concern for the plight of Palestinians goes back many years and is personal. In 2014 I was arrested and spent a night in jail protesting Israel’s attack on Gaza that killed over 2,300 people. Ever since October 7, I have taken part in a faith-rooted vigil on Mondays from 5:00-7:00 pm in front of the office of Representative Judy Chu in Pasadena calling on her to support a permanent ceasefire.

During these interfaith vigils, which were started by the Mennonites and Episcopalians,  I befriended Gazans who have lost numerous loved ones and stood in solidarity with Muslims, Jews and other people of conscience. We successfully convinced the Pasadena City Council to support a ceasefire resolution and our Congress member Chu not to sign on to more military aid to Israel. I proudly carried the AFSC banner calling for a ceasefire even though my monthly meeting didn’t support a ceasefire until April. How I yearned for the support of my meeting during these terrible months when women and children were being massacred on an unimaginable scale! I can’t describe the relief and joy I felt when my meeting finally came to unity to support a ceasefire and also donated $10,000 to the AFSC for humanitarian aid to Gaza. (It is my fervent hope that other meetings will follow this example and give as generously as they can.)

I was hoping and praying that Pacific Yearly Meeting would similarly rise to the occasion and take a stand. For this reason, I was thrilled (and deeply grateful to God) that on the first day of annual session twenty Friends gathered for a lunch meeting to discuss Gaza and this minute, and over a dozen showed up for an evening meeting to craft it. I was not alone! I was among Friends who cared!

For the past eight years or so, Pacific Yearly Meeting has not taken a public stand on issues of peace and justice, not even when George Floyd was killed by a police officer, sparking world-wide protests, while Quaker organizations like FCLCA, FCNL and AFSC made public statements in support of Black Lives Matter. This silence has deeply grieved me since I know that Friends at our Yearly Meeting care deeply about justice and peace as I do. We have approved minutes of concern each year since I moved to California and started attending annual sessions in 1989. During this recent period of quietism I have not felt supported by Yearly Meeting in my efforts to be a Quaker activist and have had to turn elsewhere to find the emotional and spiritual support I need to do the work that I feel Spirt calling me to do. This year was so different I feel incredibly grateful.

I know that many Friends have what they feel are good reasons not to consider minutes of concern. Here are some reasons why I feel that minutes of concern are important.

1)     Considering minutes of concern is time-consuming and often leads to “wordsmithing,” but it’s worth the effort. Approving a minute of concern can be messy and takes time. It is easier to remain silent. But is that what Spirit is calling us to do as a religious society? Since its inception, Quakerism has been a prophetic religion, and Quakers are known for having taken a collective stand on controversial issues like slavery and women’s rights before other religious groups.  “Wordsmithing” is often used in a pejorative sense to describe what may seem like nitpicking, but I feel it is healthy for a body to struggle to find the right words to express its commitment to justice and peace.

2)     Some feel that minutes of concerns don’t matter since they don’t lead to action. I agree that simply approving a statement doesn’t in and of itself change the world. A genuine minute of concern should reflect action already taken by Friends and lead to further action. And there are many examples. Ten monthly meetings in Pacific YM approved minutes of concern on Israel/Palestine and many individual Friends have been active in protests, letter writing and meeting with elected officials. Our minute validated these actions and encouraged other meetings to do likewise. We also invited monthly meetings and individual Friends to read and take to heart the recommendations in a statement called “A Different Future is Possible: Quaker Organizations Share a Vision for Peace in Israel and Palestine.” This statement, published in April 2024, was crafted by eight prominent Quaker organizations: American Friends Service Committee, Canadian Friends Service Committee, Friends Committee on National Legislation, Friends World Committee for Consultation, Quakers in Britain, Quaker Council on European Affairs, Quaker Peace and Social Witness, and the United Nations Office. It has also been endorsed by over 100 Quaker bodies and reflects serious Quaker thinking about how to resolve the conflict in Israel/Palestine.

3)     Minutes of concern matter because they proclaim to the world where we stand as a religious body. When the AFSC or FCNL or any religious body takes a public stand, they can lobby public officials more effectively. The larger and more prestigious the body, the more significant its influence on decision makers. That’s why a minute by a yearly  meeting has more clout than a minute by a monthly meeting. And that’s why Joyce, Ajlouny, General Secretary of the AFSC, asked us to support the statement “Towards a Different Future.”

4)     Minutes of concern can deepen our connection with the Divine. If our minutes of concern are truly Spirit-led, and that should always be our intention, then coming to unity about issues that matter brings us in harmony with the Divine. Coming to unity with the Divine empowers to speak and act more boldly because we are acting not as isolated individuals, but as a community seeking to do the will of God.

While I feel that minutes of concern are important, they should not become a routine. They should always arise from a deeply felt need and a leading of the Spirit. When we seek to do the will of the Divine and unite as a religious body, we can become instruments of Divine justice and peace. For me, this is a source of joy and solace in a broken world urgently in need of healing. I believe that being a prophetic voice, and taking action to embody our faith, is our calling as the Religious Society of Friends.



Saturday, July 13, 2024

It's Time to Take Action as Quakers to Address the Israel/Palestine Conflict

 

Protesting in front of Rep. Judy Chu's office in Pasadena: Anthony Manousos, Hedab Tarifi (a Muslim leader of our vigil who lost 150+ family members in Gaza since Oct. 8) and Bert Newton, Mennonite pastor and organizer of this vigil.

If you are troubled, heart-broken and/or outraged by the genocidal acts taking place in Gaza and the West Bank and you want to take action at our Pacific Yearly Meeting annual session, please contact me at interfaithquaker@aol.com. I’d like to meet with you for lunch on Saturday, July 20, at Whittier College to discuss what we can do, such as having an affinity group, organizing a vigil, and crafting a minute of concern.

Since October 2023 I have been involved in weekly vigils in Pasadena that have been successful in addressing the unfolding tragedy in Israel/Palestine. In March 600 people gathered for a special meeting of the Pasadena City Council at the Pasadena Convention Center, and 200 people spoke out. During this historic four-hour meeting we convinced the Council to unanimously adopt a resolution calling for a ceasefire, return of hostages, and expedited humanitarian aid.  This historic event was covered by NBC news:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z799jq-Uf58 We also convinced our Representative Judy Chu to join 58 other Congress members to oppose sending further military aid to Israel.

The Mennonites and Episcopalians here in Pasadena have organized fund-raising events that have raise tens of thousands of dollars for humanitarian aid to Gaza. Orange Grove Meeting also approved a ceasefire minute and contributed $1,500 to humanitarian aid to the AFSC for Gaza relief efforts. At least nine other meetings in Pac YM have approved minutes of concern about Gaza: Apple Seed, Berkley, Claremont, Santa Barbara, Santa Monica, San Diego, Strawberry Creek, Honolulu, and Orange Grove. 

I thank God that these meetings and our beloved activist community care deeply enough to speak out and take a stand. I am feeling led by Spirit to work with Quakers at Pac YM to take action and organize a vigil in Whittier calling for a ceasefire, return of hostages and political prisoners, expedited humanitarian aid, and a lasting and just solution to the conflict between Israelis and Palestinians.

Will you join us?

I am also urging Pacific Yearly Meeting to take a public stand and endorse the statement of Quakers world-wide regarding Israel/Palestine: “A Different Future Is Possible.”  See https://afsc.org/newsroom/different-future-possible-quaker-organizations-share-vision-peace-palestine-and-israel.

Do you agree that we as a Yearly Meeting need to follow the example of Quakers world-wide and take a public stand? Or would you prefer for us to remain silent? I would like Pacific YM Friends to have an opportunity to decide whether to be silent or to speak out? 

I hope that Friends will choose to speak out. During the Vietnam era, Dr. King famously said: “There comes a time when silence is betrayal.” When Quakers do not speak out about genocidal acts being perpetrated with our tax dollars, are we not betraying our core values?

In the past Quakers have shown the world that we are serious peacemakers. But we cannot and should not sit on our laurels. That's why I am urging Pacific Yearly Meeting to live up to our highest ideals by speaking and acting prophetically.