Yesterday my "sacred rest" time consisted of a stroll through Huntington Gardens with a dear friend named Robert who is a therapist and a landscape gardener. He is a joy to be around because he has a beautiful heart as well as a wealth of knowledge about plants. We celebrated his 82 birthday and talked about many things from politics to spirituality, and also about workaholism, something we both struggle with.
Huntington Gardens is a perfect place for recovering workaholics. It has an amazing variety of garden types to engage with: desert, English, Japanese, Chinese, tropical, and more. There are also water features to charm the eye and sooth the soul: a Japanese pagoda overlooking a pond, a Chinese garden with a small lake, and an abundance of waterfalls. The landscape gardeners at the Huntington are masters at the art of displaying nature's beauty.
During our latest visit to the Huntington, we went to a plant sale and I was thrilled when I saw a plant I'd been looking for: white sage, salvia apiara, meaning bee-attracting sage. This plant is sacred to the Chumash and is used for "smudging"--a ceremony in which the smoke from burning sage is used for healing. A Tongva leader told us that if you buy bundles of sage, it loses its spiritual potency. It must be gathered and shared for free to have healing powers. The same might be said for many other aspects of life.
Robert and I weren't pressed for time so we spent several hours "saunterring"--one of my favorite words for leisurely walking. This word derives from the French "sainte terre" ("holy land") and refers to pilgrims who "saunter" to holy places. Pilgrims aren't in a hurry. They can take time to smell the roses and praise God. They also have time to share stories, as is evident from Chaucer's Canterbury Tales. (The Huntington has a priceless Ellesmere manuscript of this classic work.) Sharing stories is what makes us fully human.
I am feeling the need for more "sacred rest" time like my bi-monthly visits to the Huntington. Gardening can be a time of sacred rest if I am not under pressure to "get the work done." If I am my best self, I "play in the dirt" for as long as it's enjoyable and then move on. This approach brings to mind the famous hymn "In the Garden."
- I come to the garden alone,
While the dew is still on the roses,
And the voice I hear falling on my ear
The Son of God discloses.- Refrain:
And He walks with me, and He talks with me,
And He tells me I am His own;
And the joy we share as we tarry there,
None other has ever known.
- Refrain:
- He speaks, and the sound of His voice
Is so sweet the birds hush their singing,
And the melody that He gave to me
Within my heart is ringing. - I’d stay in the garden with Him,
Though the night around me be falling,
But He bids me go; through the voice of woe
His voice to me is calling.
When I am pottering in the garden, I often feel that deep connection with Spirit that C. Austin Miles beautifully described in this timeless hymn written in 1912. I feel it not in my head, but in my hands and in my heart as I feel the damp dirt and the sunlight--the elements that plants use to grow in a miraculous process we call photosynthesis. The more I study, contemplate, and experience life, in its biological complexity and unfathomable beauty, the more I am in awe of its Creator.
One caveat: as soon as I "work" in the garden, I lose my connection with Spirit. This happens when the "workaholic" demon takes over and tempts me "to get the work done,"
I am reminded of what Adam told Eve in Milton's Paradise Lost. Eve suggests to Adam that could garden more efficiently if they work apart since being together, they are often tempted to dawdle. Adam responds that being apart, they are more likely to be tempted by the devil. Besides, he says, "not for irksome toil but for delight God made us" (IX, 241).
I love that line and all that it implies: the perfect antidote to workaholism is delight.
I have been reflecting on the things that delight me. Being with friends, sauntering, reading and writing poetry, writing in my blog, taking naps. These are some of my "favorite things." I am writing this to remind myself that I need to focus more on delight and less on "irksome toil."
What is it that brings you delight? What are your "favorite things?" How do you think God feels when you experience delight?
Let me conclude with a poem I wrote over 40 years ago when I first became a Quaker and was living in West Philly. "Surrender Garden" alludes to the "Surrender Group" that was started in Princeton Meeting by a Taoist Quaker elder named Herrymon Maurer. I was part of this group which was inspired by AA, only it was for "ego-holics" rather than alcoholics. Surrendering meant surrendering to one's Higher Power and avoiding ego-holism, of which workaholism is a symptom. The cure is to to connect with the Way, the Truth, and the Life, otherwise known as the Tao or Inward Light, to which this poem points.
The Surrender Garden
(for Wendell Berry)
I farm a room-sized plot of earth
where once a factory stood.
In spring, I'm met by eager volunteers--
onions and leeks, Swiss chard and kale
green and sweet as those in paradise.
But as I turn the soil for the first time,
bricks the size and shape of potatoes
stick in my digger's stubborn teeth.
My brow sweats. My winter-weary muscles ache.
I feel the effects of the fall.
My seeds are scattered to the sound
of kids and cars, trolleys and boom boxes.
I use my hands instead of a digger
because I love to mold and stroke the earth,
to feel it touch my skin.
I sit in my garden like a kid in a sandbox
and think of my Greek grandfather
for whom gardening was no game.
With the sun and rains
weeds rise up like angry peasants
insisting on their squatter's rights.
I can't blame them.
I've been an absentee.
Down on my knees, I make a space
for my seedlings as I pull the weeds
carefully by the roots,
roots that go on and on
like my compulsions and obsessions.
This is the work that never seems to end,
the work my father and his father handed down.
Some evenings I come here simply to sit alone,
and watch things grow.
It's quiet and still as a church.
At the far end of the garden
a woman waters her flowers,
and the smell of wet earth rises
like a prayer, an offering,
into the darkening sky.
Philadelphia, 1985





